ABOUT ME

BELIEF #1

You are lovable as you are. You are not broken and there's nothing wrong with you.

BELIEF #2

Your perfect person is out there and he's looking for you, too.

BELIEF #3

You don't have to choose between love and wealth. You get to have BOTH.

I'M SYEDA (SY)

Most would describe me as a mother, wife, daughter and small business owner. But in reality, I am so much more than that. And so are you.

Society may put us in boxes and has conditioned us to be tough & not need anybody or anything. But the truth is, human connection is one of our most basic needs. My goal is to help you connect with yourself, learn your OWN truth, and become the version of the woman who's ready for her ideal relationship.

Join me on a journey of self-love, inner-healing, and the greatest love story of your life.

MY STORY

The eldest daughter of strict well-meaning parents, and a first-generation immigrant from Pakistan, I grew up in NY/NJ thinking that I had only one choice in life. Go to school, get a good job, and marry a nice Pakistani Muslim boy. And I did exactly that one month after graduating from college at the ripe age of 22!

If I'm being honest, it was the only way to escape the toxic environment I grew up in and continued to endure as a young woman. The only way to leave the home was to get married and so I got out of dodge as soon as possible.

I quickly learned that the relationship I wanted to have wasn't the marriage or the partner I signed up for. Nonetheless, after 3 years of marriage, I got pregnant, and 14-months later filed for divorce. Deciding to leave my husband and finally following through with it despite the culture, religion, and family pushback was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made.

What followed after my divorce was years of healing, breaking toxic relationship patterns, navigating an anxious attachment and learning the skills to date men and build meaningful connection.

Fast forward, I'm now re-married to my Irish Catholic husband for about 6 years, and together we're co-parenting my 15yr old from my first marriage, and raising a 5 year old that we had together.

Let's just say, I know a thing or two about what it takes meet the right person and create a healthy relationship. Trust me, nobody’s relationship is perfect but a healthy relationship can be created and cultivated with intention and effort.

Not only do I have a ton of life experience, I’m also a professionally trained coach. I’m a certified life and relationship coach, certified divorce specialist, certified human design coach, and certified in the Gottman Method (Level 1). This secret sauce provides me with the tools and coaching magic to help you get the results you’re desiring in the fastest amount of time as possible.

If you’re ready to change your love life, and feel what real, committed, healthy love can do for you, I can help. Let's work together.

"I’ve become so much more confident and learned how to ask my partner for what I need without being demanding or controlling. I thought I couldn’t have a health and happy relationship due to my childhood but I know, now more than ever, that I’m worthy of one."

Alejandra E.

"In 3-months, I've gotten over my ex (1 year relationship), deepened my self-worth, got a new job, and am now exclusively dating a man that goes out of his way to make me happy"

Vanessa L.

Ready to find the love of your life?

Let's cut through the bullshit that your brain wants to offer up on why love is not possible for you. Work with me and I will help you remove the obstacles that are standing in the way between you and the love of your life.

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